Kinda Cruel

I cant remember whether I had a posting about this before. It is about the quote " Sometimes we have to be cruel in order to be kind"

I remember this quote because back at primary school, I was mistakenly change it to " Sometimes we have to be kind in order to be cruel".

And my friend who realized about my mistake is Isyam and she laughed at me. But then, she said it's kinda cruel for someone to act kind in order to be cruel.

Hopefully nobody will intend to act like that to me. Remember David Dash in Desperate Housewives Season 5? That character portrayed the most about the mistaken quote.